Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Dancing in the Mist

Seems Foggy to me today. Or is it foggy in my mind?

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

MY Comfort Food

Had a sudden urge for Magnum yesterday night ! Mr.Gim went out with me to get it! hehhehe...

Muacks Muacks! Thanks for getting me a Desktop Fan for me!

Monday, October 26, 2009

In the midst of a War ZOne

As at 10.30am

I want my Snacks.... :(

I'm Blogging at the risk of being hammered by my colleagues. We are in the midst of preparing our final docs for a tender.

I'm right in the middle of the War Zone. To be precised, I need all info to be done (must be accurate la) and finalised before i could do my work! So basically, i multi-tasking as a typist,chemical process engineer,editor,auditor,QS etc... which i'm not trained as.

Blogging as at 12.25 pm ....


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Now then I know that i need to do 2 proposal!!!! Same all stuff but different Suppliers,different proposal but same tender.


NO time for LUNCH or toilet breaks!

Blogging as at 1.56Pm

In reference to the post What would you do post, I told my colleague as what Mr.Gim has suggested.

Her Reply- I would prefer my man to throw away all the letters/cards/photographs out of his own accord.

I Agree! If i throw away with or without his knowledge, i still feel bu shuang! But if he throw away it himself willghly,at least i know that he really care abt my feelings. He himself have to guide which is more important to him.

At 10.04pm

Home. Supposed to carry on with my work but... hehehhehe... Garfield called and told me that there will be some amendments need to be done. So my work is to be on hold..

BUT... does it means that more work to be done tmr and all the work i done is in vain??

Fringe is showing on Channel 5 now. But right now, i'm more interested in AGENT Booth!

Muacks muacks Agent Booth! Here I Come!

Thursday, October 22, 2009

What would you do????

My colleague ask me a question that have me pondering....

What Would You Do??????

Wat would u do if your BF is still in touch with his ex? Wat would you do if he still keep her cards to him ? Wat would you do if he still keep his ex photos?

Her Story......

She used to have a EX which she wasted her whole 6 years on. To cut the story short, her EX cheated on her with his SUPERIOR who was older than him a whole 9 years! The Woman in question was a high profile career lady who has it all . Money,Looks,Sport Car etc... All but LOVE!

He cheated on her with the woman for at least a year before she get suspicious. Think the woman buay tahan being the woman behind that she start to do some tricks.. Posting mushy mushy messages on her ex FB. Call and Sms him at weird time. Posting their intimate photos on FB. Even call my colleague on her Hp to ask whether is he around etc...

Of cos, she did question her EX abt the woman, which he blatanly denied ( my colleague n her ex already planned to get married in a few mths time, HDB Flat on the way). All this go on for 1 mth before she really breakdown and employ a PI!

So the balloon burst! She broke up with him.. That was a year ago.

She now currently with a new guy whom she know for quite some years... Been together for a few mths. She know that his ex still keep in contact with him occasionally. Asking his help, asking for advice etc. (His ex is married)

Her BF already promised n swear that there nothing between them. Just normals Friends. His ex was his first Love. So hard to forgot as what he claim. Hard to totally break off all contacts. She trusted him.

But lately, when she went over his house to clean for him, she found a shoe box full of letters which his ex wrote to him and photographs of them... Although she trusted him, she still feel upsets.

She know that it a thing of the past. But why can't he throw away all the letters and photographs? Women is selfish.

Her BF does not know that she already find out abt the shoe box. She was in a dilemma over whether to ask him abt it or just treat it as she doesn't know..


What your take on tis matter?

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

To the Gang....

TO: THE GANG.

Please kindly inform me of any posting that you guys intend to post on my FB in regards to (YOU KNOW WHO)! I don't want to get bombarded! As we all know, we're not catty cats in heat.... Any slight comments may be taken as an offence to them.

By: Inncoent Bystander

Memories to hold on to....

Few weeks ago, I was racking my brain on what to get for our anniversary. Expensive /Cheap Gifts? Holiday trip? What will be the right gift for him?



Gifts... Presents... Regardless of how expensive or how cheap it is, it is just a token of appreciation in monetary form.


What is the correct ways or rules to maintain a Relationship? To me, a simple appreciation of each other efforts, to give and take, Show concern and being concerned for is just a few basic stuffs that I believe in to maintain a relationship. There's no Hard rules that you have to do! It's all based on basic fact of willing or not willing to! If you're willing to put in effort, there's nothing much you can't achieve or done.

A Relationship need to be Nurtured! Just like a plant. A plant will grow strong and tall if you shower it with yr care and concern. Water it daily, give some sunlight, nourishes it by giving fertilizer . The plant will wither if you doesn't do anything. You don't expect any returns.

Don't think of getting back the same amount of effort that you put in. It doesn't work in this way. Just because that he/she doesn't put in the same effort as you are, you think that it's not fair. What is fair and what is not fair? Who can answer that? GOD? God also can't answer for you. You have to find it in yourself. To strike a balance between yourself and your (the) other half, you have to make the effort to find a balance and work hard to achieve it .

We all have our own quirks and faults. * Wink Wink*

All we can do is to accept it! hehhehehe....


I always think that I do not know how to express myself in spoken or written form . I'm not a articulate speaker. I tend to express myself in actions instead of words.

So this is how this blog came about.

This blog is to commence our 1st Anniversary!

Simple thoughts that I have ... Thoughts and words that i have whenever i feel like saying.... Memories that i feel that i have to hold on too....

Monday, October 19, 2009

Friday, October 16, 2009

1st Anniversary


OUr First Anniversary!
Times Files! Without realising it, we have been together for a year.
hehhehe...
Muacks Muacks!