New Year Resolution

2011 is coming...

Should I stay on with my job or move on?

Mr Gim is having a serious burnout on his job. Should he bear with it on leave for greener and better pastures?

It boils down to choices that we have to make...

Run For Hope

Why do i sign up when I know i will be very shagged even though i will be walking?

But when a person fallen down, loses all hopes, life may seem painful and uninteresting and you start to wonder why you are here on this Earth. I think if there's something that you look forward to life, something that will bring you hope, it energies you to work harder. When all hopes are lost, then all is gone. The word “Run for hope” I feel personally, is that running towards something that you want to look forward to, even though you may not know what happens in your life, whether it is something desirable or another unpleasant experience. But to learn to pick yourself up when you are down and run towards it! Of course, not to forget that this is also a charity run for the research which may benefit the cancer patients. Run, for Hope!

Year 2011

Haven't ink any works since July....

Mmm.... lots of things has happen since then..

Australia Trip in Sep 2010

Lots of memories! Really enjoyed the cold weather over there.. The fantastic views and scenery. The foods. The animals... Also the dead animal bodies... The field of wild flowers.. the sheep... the hor pek gu... (the cows)

And most of all, Mr Lim propose to me....

A nice surprise....

Tulips and iPad as anniversary pressie...
Sammi Cheng Concert 2010..

KL Trip at end of the year (His Coy D&D)

Conclusion: A Eventful year

Will blog more about the wedding preparations when I've more free time..


BUt.... I would love to go Sweden!

Holidays Trips

So Looking forward to the next trip! :)

Every sorrow, every happiness, every smile and every tears, they're just part and parcel of life, it's how you see them through and how you live with it.

Thought of the day

I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn how to let go. Things go wrong,so that you will appreciate them when they're right. You believe in lies, so you will eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.

Malacca Short Hiatus

Off to Sheauwen Hse in Malacca! Food food food... Here I come! hahahha...

Dear ! Please remember to have yr med after your meals!

Bye Bye!

Poor Ah Gim

My Poor ah gim is sick again....

*pat pat****


Get Well Soon!

Words to ......

Dear Mr Gim,

If you don't daydream and kind of plan things out in your imagination, you will never get there. So you have to start someplace.

Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, do what you want to do because you only have one life -time to do all the things that you ever dream of. And,when you make a mistake, don't look back at it too long. Chuck it in your mind and look forward. Mistakes are lessons of wisdom. The past cannot be changed. But the future is in your hands to shape.

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak, sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. Courage and Strong always go hand in hand.Must have the courage to start all over again.Strong enough to bear the hardship that sometimes failure brings.

So ...

Let your milestone begin!

New Image

heeeheeee...

I've permed my hair!

First Marathon 2010

First Marathon in my life :)

Adidas Sundown 29 May 2010


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Took ard 1 hr 37 mins to finish 10KM. Although it a run marathon, I walk all the way! Hehehhehe.....


Dear.... Run Against Cancer next?

I started a war btw my current and ex HR Manager

here how it goes.......

Wendy Anissa Pang Miracles of makeup can turn an ugly duckling into a cindrella ONLY HER WEDDING DAY ONLY!!! HAHAHA
May 18 at 5:46pm · View Feedback (4)Hide Feedback (4)

Angela Ng
that a wonder of make-up..... can turn a ordinary looking gal to the most fabulous bride for the wedding day....
May 18 at 5:50pm

Wendy Anissa Pang
HAHA..U know who i am refering to ?
May 18 at 5:52pm

Angela Ng
someone u hate to the core......man
May 18 at 5:55pm

Wendy Anissa Pang
I dun hate neither do i like!!! hohoho
May 18 at 6:01pm


Wendy Anissa Pang wonder..wedding @noble house and with 2 pathetic bridemaid ,is it a sad thing with no other friend by your side other than this ?? ponders...
May 18 at 5:06pm · View Feedback (7)Hide Feedback (7)

Angela Ng
hmmmm.... must be sad lol, only 2 person to share such a joyful moment
May 18 at 5:48pm

Wendy Anissa Pang
people SUPER HAPPY MA..NO MORE GIRLS TO OUTSHINE HER MA.
May 18 at 5:57pm

Angela Ng
that is because she is the pretty among the ugliest.haha
May 18 at 5:59pm

Wendy Anissa Pang
hee..shd say pretty among the GUYS.hahahahah
May 18 at 6:02pm

Wendy Anissa Pang
to add on..cos she doesnt have other Girl friend beside the 2.
May 18 at 6:02pm

Angela Ng
pretty sad hor.... only have 2 buddies with her
May 18 at 6:21pm

Wendy Anissa Pang
she feel otherwise ma...no need feel sad for her de.
May 18 at 8:35pm



After reading the above comment, i was so agitated that i went to the so-called half of the 2 and told her...

and.... the war begin after the bride come to know about it....

Restless

Arrghhhhh...

Had been feeling restless for these past 2 weeks !


Argghhhhhhhhhh...

My two cents of thought

I tend to look at life positively.I dun really give much thought on what i want to do since young. I took life as what it is as it goes. You may say that I dun have a goal in life. No ambition. Nothing. I'm just a speck of life in the whole vast world. The world will still turn without me.

People come to me for advice. And they will ask.. Why are you so 萧洒? Am I? Maybe I took things differently. I maybe be angry at something but once tat moment passes, I will be alright. As the Sayings go, Can forgive but cannot forgot. It may sound harsh. But on my own opinion, it's sound so true. No matter what, u will still remember tat incident tat make you so angry and upset. I can forgive. I can forgot. But i still will take it to heart. Just that i can choose not to let it bother me.

I may be a good listener. But I do not give out good advice. What i dish out is just my worthless own thoughts. You don't have to follow it though.

What i provide is another side of views which u may or may not take into consideration .

I have my own set of problems. I didn't voice out doesn't mean that i dun have. I just choose to be a hermit and burrows it deep into the sand. I will just solve it one by one when it's find it way out.

So just call me a tortoise if u want. But at least I try to solve it when it emerges out.

Just take a stand and stick on it...

Ah Gim

Ah Gim never tell me about his 烦恼 or feelings.... :(

Dis-Heartening start of the week...

Hiaz...

Long story and too disheartened to write it out...

Have been a busy week for me last week.. Concert on a Thur. Bro's ROM on a Fri.Pan Pacific on a Sat and last of all, Yen's wedding on a Sun. It's a long week! :)

Let's plan for the week ahead! :)

Mission to accomplished this week...

Ronald Birthday Dinner? Collect our Adidas Sundown runner pack. A walk at Mac Rictie on Sat Morning? Henderson waves with the girls this sun.

And to visit Sunarti next mth! Congrats on her Baby girl!

Thought Invoking session....

Ah Gim brought a new BED! :) and that means that many good night's sleep to come our way! : )

Went for a walk at MacRitchie reservoir last sat. We walk a total of 13Km in 3 hours! Well Done! hahahhaha.... Went for a cooling dip at Jurong Swimming Pool after that. My reward for the day: 2 Blisters on my both heels. Sun-burnt.

But overall, I quite enjoyed it! The feeling of perspiring. The cooling down in the wave pool. Was quite disgusted at the shower stall though... There's P**P in the shower stall ! Disgusting!

Contemplating whether to go MacRichite or Henderson Wave this weekend! :)

Adidas Sundown, Here we Come! hehehhehe

Dear Mr Gim,


I know that you are tired of people taking you for granted.You feel that things between you and them are not the same as before.It’s hard to turn back to how it used to be. People will change according to the company they keep..Why beat yourself up over them? Just give if you think they are worth it. If not, just stop giving in.

Sometimes I do wonder am I giving too much too till to the point tat they will take you for granted.I’m far from being a doormat, but to the people I sincerely care about, I would probably do almost anything for them.But they just take and take which made me feel very tired.

Every relationship and friendship should be about giving and taking, hopefully in equal proportions, but if I give more instead i really dun mind.

But just don’t test my limits and patience cos once I snap, there is no going back.

I'm not a Paper Tiger. I'm just too lazy and think that they ain't worth me flaring up over them.

Just be nonchalant! Since they don't treasure you, just give whatever amt u can. If you can't help, then don't give.

Feel so tired after awhile.. It shouldn’t be a measurement btw friendship,but sometimes , u feel that u give too much that you will wonder what the hell are you doing?

Year 2010 -1st Quarter Review Life Lessons

Going to be Apr soon... How times files... 不知不觉，已经过了三个月了!
The weather was and is still mad-abominable. Hot and Cold in a span of hours.

Reflections on the past 3 months

1) Never revolve your life around someone such that if that person leaves, your world crumbles. At best, his/her absence should barely make a dent in your life.

2) Some Ladies do have the luck to get whatever things she want, and her hubby is rich enough to paid for it. Face that fact!

3) Time can erase everything, even if it's something which had completely taken my breath away once.

4) Choices! It all about choices! Should I Stay or Leave? Leave for Shit work but better pay and benefits with no prospects. OR stay for shit work tat may have prospects but lesser pay and benefits?

5) Be contended in whatever you have now. It's good to have higher goals. But if you're happy with your lot now, then be with it. Don't stress over it when you see what others can do or achieve and you beat yourself up over it cos you can't do so.

I'm a wanderer.... I Love to Travel! So More Holidays please! :)

Need to save money for number of things... Aussie Trip,Driving Lessons etc... I need more Money!

Please give me some inspirations for TOTO and 4D!!!!

March 2010

I want a new life!

It’s so much easier to believe what you need than what is the truth.

Been quite awhile since I rant my thoughts out....

When a woman says something, you could analyse it for hours just trying to read between the lines.

When a man says something, it’s usually exactly what it is, or even less complicated than one might think.

Sometimes, it’s so easy to understand men that the simplicity of it all is too hard for me to grasp... Arghh..

On another rambling blah blah thought...

Some girls are really )(&(%%#@$@_*(*&#@**

People always say hosting of wedding dinner are for the parents and not the couple, because the couple probably doesn’t know half the people present at the banquet.

But that’s beside the point.

What disgusted me was their bitching about how some couples gave so little angpao, and don’t they know the market rate for angpao? Some even went as far as saying, oh you shouldn’t invite the [insert different races here] because they will give less. And oh, some people ah, come as couple and give so little somemore dare write their name on the angpao. Some even bitched about making losses during their wedding.

Since when did weddings become so business like? What happened to the whole gist of a wedding? Did it get lost between the angpao giving and the raucous yum sengs?

I mean, fair enough that we have traditions and customs we have to uphold here, it’s just the attitude of the people that irks me. I just hate the idea that you expect other people to pay exactly the market rate or more for your grand wedding otherwise you bitch about them cos this kind of attitude really spoils the whole meaning of a wedding. A union of two souls, hello?

Stop jotting down on a note book on how much who and who give you so you can give back the same amt to them when it their's turn so that you won't lugi! If you're so scared of making a losses then don't host a dinner la!

Buay Tahan! You are making me cranky by your constant bitching. Although I tend to control my temper and try to be nice, doesn't mean that I won't go crazy and flare up. I DARE YOU TO TRY!

And to someone out there. I know that you are rich! You have a doting Hubby who supp credit cards for you to spend on his tab. I get it! Please stop buzzing around me to tell me of this latest trend, latest bag etc..

I'M JUST NOT INTERESTED! UNDERSTAND!

Cranky mood.....

Brand New Year Brand New Start

In the midst of re-vamping my blog, so bear with the messy front..

Once in a blue moon, my writer itch's will come and bite me...

Life's have been a state of normalcy for me nowadays. Nothing high and low, I'm in-between.Nothing interesting or exciting or so whatever.

I'm at that point in my life where things are neither good nor bad. They could be better, but they could be worse. I can't look at anything with a purely pessimistic or optimistic point of view. I wonder what's next.

I learned that things don’t always turn out the way you planned, or the way you think they should. And I’ve learned that there are things that go wrong that don’t always get fixed or get put back together the way they were before. I’ve learned that some broken things stay broken, and as it is.

It's amazing and incomprehensible that some people have that innate ability to cast away thoughts that are detrimental to them in any way, and they could go on being happy.

Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Once succumb to destiny,hard to un-succumb....

CNY

CNY Coming..

It've been a while since the last post...

Feeling dis-moviated by number of things....

hiaz....

Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday to KANG TANG!

Happy Anniversary! Today will be our 1 Year & 3 Mths anniversary!

:)

Poor Ah Gim

Mr.Gim has been working very hard these past few months! Poor Thing.....

Gim,

Don't work too hard ok! U already tried your best ler! Must take care of your health and don't let me worry abt u ok?


Muacks Muacks!

First Post of 2010

Happy New Year!

Acomplished a number of things on the 1st day of the new year!

Hair Cut! Mushroom POt Steamboat!Done some work for Ah Gim etc...

Wish that all the good things come true in the following days in 2010!

Happy New Year!