Few weeks ago, I was racking my brain on what to get for our anniversary. Expensive /Cheap Gifts? Holiday trip? What will be the right gift for him?
Gifts... Presents... Regardless of how expensive or how cheap it is, it is just a token of appreciation in monetary form.
What is the correct ways or rules to maintain a Relationship? To me, a simple appreciation of each other efforts, to give and take, Show concern and being concerned for is just a few basic stuffs that I believe in to maintain a relationship. There's no Hard rules that you have to do! It's all based on basic fact of willing or not willing to! If you're willing to put in effort, there's nothing much you can't achieve or done.
A Relationship need to be Nurtured! Just like a plant. A plant will grow strong and tall if you shower it with yr care and concern. Water it daily, give some sunlight, nourishes it by giving fertilizer . The plant will wither if you doesn't do anything. You don't expect any returns.
Don't think of getting back the same amount of effort that you put in. It doesn't work in this way. Just because that he/she doesn't put in the same effort as you are, you think that it's not fair. What is fair and what is not fair? Who can answer that? GOD? God also can't answer for you. You have to find it in yourself. To strike a balance between yourself and your (the) other half, you have to make the effort to find a balance and work hard to achieve it .
We all have our own quirks and faults. * Wink Wink*
All we can do is to accept it! hehhehehe....
I always think that I do not know how to express myself in spoken or written form . I'm not a articulate speaker. I tend to express myself in actions instead of words.
So this is how this blog came about.
This blog is to commence our 1st Anniversary!
Simple thoughts that I have ... Thoughts and words that i have whenever i feel like saying.... Memories that i feel that i have to hold on too....
Me too is writing to commemorate our 1st year Annie-versary.
ReplyDeleteThank you for all the wonderful memories and being with me for the past one year
:). Your support has gotten me through the rough patches and thanks for sticking by me through good and bad times. :) I really admire your honest approach to life and also your support, care and kindness to your close ones (family, friends, colleagues etc - keke). Never only in words but in action too :)
Dun worry, I will continue to sun, water and fertilise our plant (not talking about Xiao Lui and Xiao Gao here :)) and care for it with my heart :)
I am also not good in spoken words and I understand my written one also cannot make it. But I still want to carry on writing. :)
Thanks for sneaking snacks in my bag once in awhile, for “playing” with Kang Tang, for reminding me to take medicine everyday, for helping my dad buy 4D/Toto, for the weekly room cleaning, for prawning with me,for scoping more rice for me, for messaging my back, for reminding me to apply moisturizers, for asking me to sleep early and for the many many small things you have done for me :) And thanks for being you :)
From: They Call me Ah Gim
P.s: I'll also continue sun-ing, watering and fertilizing Xiao Lui and Xiao Gao. :)